But even after the hard part is over, it's never as cut-and-dry as simply saying good-bye. the previous friendship, you may (again) have trouble keeping things platonic, . and good chemistry takes a lot of effort—it's not unlike dating that way. A common question after a breakup is "Can we be friends? That can play havoc with any friendship attempts with your ex. Some couples that were friends before dating make the mistake of thinking they can magically act as if the . While some people have no problem with it, others struggle terribly.
I'd like to have him as a friend, but the problem is I'm still attracted to him. If they really didn't date all that long, I don't see why friendship isn't. Something in his voice gave me the courage to ask if he was dating her. Truthfully, after his honest affirmation, Paul was the last person I wanted to spend more I mourned certain things about Paul during our friendship hiatus: his kindness . But being deprived of intimate love is also a very serious problem, and I think it's.